Wow my relationship with my spouse.
James and I love each other and have been through a lot together things that many people would not be able to handle, but by some miracle we always turn to each other.
We don't have that fairy tale relationship, we don't hide our feelings, and we are polor opposites.
While I talk about my feelings - James hides them
I like to get things done - James is a procrastinator
I finish one task before another - James jumps from project to project
I am the disiplianry - James is not
I am the affectionate one - James is not
I am the clean one - James is not
I am the throw your clothes on the floor - James is the hang/put everything away in order
etc..............
We fight, but always make up! We have very real moments everyday. But James is my best friend, the person I lean on the person I tell everything to. My rock!
We have a very boring relationship right now and while it has never been trips, exotic meals etc I am looking forward to a more eventful summer. I am looking forward to more "dates" these dates consist of curling up and watching a movie, or tv show. Going for walks hand in hand (we still manage to hold hands with a stroller), enjoying a fire with just the two of us and a glass of wine.
I think we have a real relationship and respect each other. I hope that both my girls are lucky enough to find their best friend, the friend they can lean on, yell at, be mad at and love all in 10 seconds of each other one day
You two are great and have such devotion towards each other and that is obvious. Your children have such a great example.
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